Courage, Guarantees & Elbows to the Front - How do I know my idea will work? #137
In this episode of Buckets and Boom Gates, Jill Olish and Kim White talk about what real courage looks like in business—not the flashy, fearless version, but the quiet choice to move forward even when you’re scared. They tackle the hidden question, “How can I guarantee something will work before I put in all the effort?” and introduce the idea of “stage busters with elbows to the front” so you can tell the difference between courageous visibility and ego-driven spotlight grabbing. If you’ve been waiting for certainty before you move, this conversation will nudge you forward.
What you’ll learn in this episode:
- A grounded definition of courage as moving forward in alignment with your values despite fear, doubt, and uncertainty
- Why the desire for guarantees before you act can quietly keep you stuck and what you can ask instead
- How to recognize “stage busters with elbows to the front” and why that behavior damages trust and connection
- The difference between taking up space to serve and shoving your way to the front to be seen
- Practical ways to take one small, courageous step in your business this week without needing a guaranteed outcome
Jill and Kim normalize being afraid to build a business and doing it anyway, emphasizing that courage isn’t the absence of fear but the decision to act without a guarantee. They contrast that with the energy of stage busters who lead with ego and urgency, using their elbows to claim the spotlight at the expense of trust. You’ll leave with a new lens on courage, a healthier question to ask than “Will this definitely work?” and one simple, next brave step to take in your own business.
Love Ya’ll,
Kim & Jill ❤️
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